I can tell you to drop your story of me, but you will not do it. You are still too attached to it. I can tell you that this story is the sole and only cause of your suffering but you will not completely believe or accept this. You are still too attached to your story to really see what it does to you. When you experience suffering you seek relief by trying to improve, change, fix or heal your story. If we’re honest, this is the motivation for all spiritual practices and learning, isn’t it?